Our culture seems to spend a lot of time demeaning men and undermining the importance of the role of fathers, but wonders at the staggering numbers of fatherless and troubled children. To the fathers out there who are sticking it out and standing up for their families and to the men who have stepped up to the plate to fill someone else’s shoes—thank you. You play a vital role not only in your family, but your positive impact is felt throughout society.
I hadn’t planned on posting for Father’s Day this year, but my heart kept remembering those who do not have a father in their lives or perhaps not a good relationship with them. I remember the longing and loneliness of being in school and my friends making cards for Mother’s Day while mine was overseas and I didn’t have much contact with her at the time. I know there are others who feel this emptiness because their parent has died, is not a part of their life, or is physically present but emotionally absent. So I want people to be aware that for some, Fathers Day can be hard. I’m hoping if you know of such a person, you will be encouraged to consider reaching out to them as a friend or father figure. Or perhaps you know of a dad who is not shouldering his responsibilities, or doesn’t know how to be a father and needs someone to come alongside and help him. Click Here to Continue Reading
Perhaps you’re a dad with a wayward child despite the time and love you’ve invested in them. God hears your prayers for your prodigal, Dad. He loves them more than you and works to win their heart and draw them home.
To those without a father in their lives or whose father falls short of their call, I wish to remind you that God sees, loves and aches for you. If you don’t know Him, He longs to make you His own son or daughter.
But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name John 1:12 (NASB)
A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation. Psalms 68:5 (NKJV)
You don’t have to remain a victim of your circumstances. If you grew up with an absent or abusive father God can break the cycle of destruction; He wants to heal and help you become the person you were meant to be.
A man I greatly admire is John Finch, author of The Father Effect and founder of The Father Effect Ministries and Encouraging Dads. John chose to become a victor instead of remaining a victim of his circumstances by accepting God’s forgiveness for himself and forgiving his father. As a result, God has restored John and used his painful past to create a ministry reaching out to rescue, encourage and equip thousands of fathers and children.
For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, “Abba! Father!” Romans 8:15 (NASB)
God is a perfect father. He doesn’t fall short like we do. When we give ourselves, our hearts and hurts to Him we are accepted, adopted, and adored. He forgives us and enables us to forgive others. We are known and understood. God is always accessible. We can trust Him. He will never leave or forsake us. He calls us beloved. He is our help and our sufficiency.
“I will be a Father to you, And you shall be My sons and daughters, Says the Lord Almighty.” II Corinthians 6:18 (NKJV)
For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.Jeremiah 29:11 (NASB)
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Past Father’s Day Post:
I remember Daddy holding my hand as we entered the gates to the botanical gardens, Wrigley’s gum, Elephant Ear pastries, Matchbox cars and … Click to continue to In My Father’s Steps
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