Hi, my name is “Ridiculous” and sometimes it’s “Crazy,” and I am a P.O.T. (Parent of Teen). My support group is Father, Son, and Holy Ghost, and other mothers. My only escape is prayer.
So I prayed, “God, give me children lest I die!” and He gave us children. Then, sometimes I want to die. And we parents do die, right? Every. Single. Day. For-the-rest-of-our-lives.
Yeah, this is where I live and I can’t move out because it’s a lifetime lease. How about you fellow P.O.T.s? (And yes, you MOPs and MOAs and ones in between those too.) Do you ever tell God, “Hey God, this was Your idea! You told me to be fruitful and multiply. So God, You have to help me! Help me help them—in Jesus’ name, amen. Please.”
I don’t drink, I don’t swear, and I don’t believe in happy pills, but there’ve been times I wished I did. I used to swear a lot, especially right before I became a Born Again Christian. But then I gave my heart to Jesus and I had no inkling to swear again—until my firstborn turned fifteen. Then I found myself going, “mmmmm…help me Jesus!” And there are three more after her!
What have I done? I helped create four eternal beings with an agenda of their own. What an enormous responsibility. I was talking to a friend the other day, and he gave the perfect illustration of parenting. He said, “Yeah, it’s like taking a piece of your heart and giving it to this little individual, and then they run off with it. And you’re saying, ‘Wait! Stop! Come back. No, I don’t want to go there!”
We do the same thing with God’s heart. God, the perfect parent, with perfect love, and nothing but pure intentions for us. Sorry Lord. Forgive me.
Sometimes, looking at our children is like looking in a mirror. They are the ultimate object lesson God uses to teach us about ourselves. Don’t you just hate/ love it when God says, “You do that to me.” Or when He says, “Maybe if you showed them how by example?” Ever look at your kid and say, “Where’d you get that attitude from?” Then you feel God looking at you and saying, “I wonder?” Often, it’s the change in us that God uses to change others.
So kids, how about you give us a break? Parents are human—we mess up, we fall short, just like you. We’re under God’s construction, too. Being a parent is hard, but you’re worth it.
But other times it’s not like looking in a mirror, because our children are unique individuals with a God-given free will. And yeah, I tell God all the time that free will is overrated.
“Mooomm! You’re such a mom,” they say. Yeah, guilty as charged.
Dear kids, we know you must make your own decisions, but we’ve been down a few wrong roads and want you to know you really don’t have to take the detours. Don’t you know we hurt when you hurt, and when you’re victorious, we’re victorious? And when we encourage you, it’s because we don’t just see the seed—we see the tree you can become. We are trying to nourish your growth, as is God. We’re on your side; we are not the enemy. And God never shortchanges, so don’t settle for anything less than all He has for you.
For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. (Ephesians 2:10 NKJV) For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. (Jeremiah 29:11)
Actually, I think this is a setup. God made it this way, just in case we thought we could make it on our own. It’s as if He says, “Here you go! Ha-ha! Have a couple kids. You’ll come talk to me then!” He knows how to make us desperate. Just know this—God inclines His ear to a mother’s prayer. He loves our children even more than we do. And love never fails.
Lord, please help us as parents to live in such a way so our children see You in us. Draw them to choose You for themselves. Help our children to see and know how much we love them and guide them in Your truth, righteousness, love, and grace, in Jesus’ name I pray, amen.
Hey, Ariel, Anna, Abby, and Andrew, Guess How Much I Love You? I Love You the Purplest! I Love You Forever, and No Matter What, even when you are The Runaway Bunny. And you will always have a piece of my heart.
And happy birthday to my beloved Ariel! (My firstborn.)
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10 thoughts on “Piece of My Heart”
Rachael, I love your writing. This post had me nodding my head in agreement. I’ve often thought, “I act just like that, and I’m thankful for God’s forgiveness.
Thank you, Jeannie. Blesed you find takeaway in my writing. Likewise. Yes, grateful for God’s grace and forgiveness.
Your message is so on target! I kept nodding my head and saying, “Yeah, that’s me.” I think being a mom is the hardest job in the world, yet the greatest blessing. Thank you for sharing a smile and letting all moms know that we’re not alone.
So glad my article resonated with you and brought a smile, Katherine. And amen. So glad we’re not alone. God bless you and your family, Katherine.
Very good look at parenting.
Thank you, Yvonne, and thanks for reading. Couldn’t do it without God’s help! God bless you..
Rachel, you’ve expressed parenting with wit and wisdom. Love this!
Thank you for your kind words, Annie. Praise God. Happy my article blessed you. Hope you make a habit of visiting here. Welcome!
Rachael, Even though this is a Mother’s Day post, you can put dad’s in there too. We worry, complain, agonize, and pray for our kids as well, especially when they get in their late teen years and beyond. Thanks for posting this!
You are welcome, Ben. I held on to it for quite some time. It’s really an evergreen post for parents of any age children.. Yes, even adult children. Praying it ministers to hearts. God bless you and your family, Ben.