Sometimes I take God and His blessings for granted. Complaining comes more naturally than thankfulness to our fallen nature.
Culture tends to extol self-gratification and self-promotion and chase materialism. The Bible calls Christians to amplify Jesus and serve others. If we focus on our lack, we can fail to see and experience the blessings we possess. Why live as paupers when God calls His children to partake of the richness of Christ?
Even in a stormy season, while acknowledging problems and taking needed steps to remedy, we can choose gratitude—to notice and elevate the positive over the negative. Focus on giving more than getting; it nourishes both giver and receiver. The fruit of gratitude is contentment, peace, and joy. But it takes practice to break bad habits and build good character.
In her book, Shine Don’t Whine, award-winning author, speaker, teacher, and United States military veteran, Cherrilynn Bisbano shares her real and raw wrestlings and her road to healing from past hurts and habits. Using her acrostic S.T.A.R principle as a teaching tool, Cherrilynn guides us through scriptures that empower us to overcome whining, perfectionism, receive God’s healing, and live in victory—to shine as Jesus calls us to.
Please enjoy Cherrilynn’s guest article below entitled, Shine or Whine, followed by her answers to my brief interview. And don’t miss my special announcement at the end and some gift suggestions for Christmas and beyond. – Rachael
SHINE OR WHINE
Guest post by Cherrilynn Bisbano
As a member of the Rhode Island Air National Guard I was sent to Photography School in Denver Colorado. My first roommate was a born again believer. She would read her bible and ask if she could read to me. On occasion I let her.
I did not understand any of it though I desperately wanted to. I was searching for the way to Heaven. But on more than one occasion my roommate, who attended a different class than me, returned to our room complaining about the people in her class, about school, and life in general.
“I don’t want to be a Christian if they complain so much!”
My desire to hear the word was cut short by my roommate’s constant complaining. Now, as a believer, God brought this person to my mind when I found myself complaining about life. Conviction set in while doing my devotions.
Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life. Philippians 2:14-16
Impatience, discontent and a critical spirit dimmed my roommate’s light, and so too mine.
“Do I want to shine or whine?” I asked myself.
I want to shine like a star and lead many to righteousness.
Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever. (Daniel 12:3 NIV)
Just for fun I looked up star classifications. I wanted to learn about the heavenly stars; after all, God created them and nothing He does is without reason.
According to NASA, they classify stars according to their surface temperature. The classes are: O, B, A, F, G, K, and M.
The O stars are the hottest and very rare and BRIGHT
M stars are numerous, cold but DIM.
Our sun is somewhere in the middle.
I gave my own classifications for stars to represent Christians’ shine-ability.
O Star = Obedient
Wow, the brightest stars are very rare. True obedience to Jesus is rare.
Jesus said: “Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it.” (Luke 11:28 NIV)
M Star = Mediocre.
No one wants to be described as mediocre. Half-hearted performance produces mediocre results. God despises half-heartedness. Likewise a self-centered, inconsiderate attitude of me, me, me. Notice the word mediocre starts with ME!
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility, value others above yourselves. (Philippians 2:3 NIV)
Complaining will snuff out your light. As an unbeliever, I was turned off to the gospel message because my roommate chose to whine and not shine. I don’t want to whine. I choose to shine.
“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16 NIV)
When you feel the need to complain remember the promise God gave to His Children:
“Who created all these?
He who brings out the starry host one by one
and calls forth each of them by name.
Because of his great power and mighty strength, not one of them is missing.
Why do you complain, Jacob?
Why do you say, Israel,
“My way is hidden from the Lord;
my cause is disregarded by my God”?
Do you not know?
Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
and his understanding no one can fathom.
He gives strength to the weary
and increases the power of the weak.”
(Isaiah 40:26-29 NIV)
We are stars for the Lord shining His light of truth and love into the dark world. Our goal is to glorify Him. We have the awesome privilege to be used by God to Shine!
For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made His light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ. (2 Corinthians 4:6 NIV)
Let’s light the world with our shine-ability.
RACHAEL: Congratulations, Cherrilynn, on your award for your devotion in the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference Foundations II Contest and on your newly released book, Shine Don’t Whine.
Tell us a little about your road to writing. Why do you write?
CHERRILYNN: I write out of obedience to God. Many ladies would ask me for a book after I spoke at events. “I don’t write.” was my prompt reply. After encouragement from a writing friend, and a strong prompting from the Holy Spirit, I started my journey.
My goal is to help my brothers and sisters to realize life causes our light to dim. The principles in Shine Don’t Whine help us determine where we need to focus to shine brighter.
Do you ever find it hard to be grateful, to give thanks?
After losing 13 close friends and family over the last two years, grief consumed my body and heart. I have to grasp in the dark to cling to Jesus. I thank God for the assurance of Heaven because I know I will see some of my loved ones again. The Bible states, “give thanks in all things for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus”. I don’t thank Him for the dark. But, I thank God that He is with me in the dark.
You are a United States military veteran. Can you tell us a little about why you joined the service and about your military award? Has serving in our armed forces impacted your life?
Yes, I love my country. I’ve traveled to places and eaten things I never would if I did not join. I’ve been to Japan, Hawaii, and served near our Nation’s Capital. I ate possum, snake, and food from the Philippines. The people I met will forever be in my heart.
I served 7.5 years full time in the Navy and 13 years in the Air National Guard. I loved teaching and traveling. I don’t really like talking about my leadership award and other acknowledgements. I enjoy helping others achieve their goals, and I step up to the plate to encourage others to succeed.
Do you have any concerns for our nation? Any ideas as to the causes of unrest, unraveling, and divisions in America? Any answers, admonitions?
Great questions! I’ll try to keep it short. People have left the faith. Our country was founded on Godly principles. When prayer was taken out of the schools in the early 60s the country went downhill. I also believe many Americans don’t research what they hear. This leads to chaos. There are entire books written on this topic. I believe we need to fight our battles on our knees, not in the streets.
What has Jesus done for you? Why should those who do not know Jesus consider Him?
I love to encourage others to accept and apply the love of God and serve Him. Even Historians who didn’t believe Jesus was the Messiah wrote of Him and His great deeds. Many witnessed His resurrection. Jesus took this complaining child and turned my whine to shine.
Jesus considers you enough to die for. Pray and ask Him to reveal Himself to you.
What is your writing process? Any advice for writers?
I schedule time to write in the morning. My brain works best when it’s not filled by the events of the day. Anyone can learn to write well. Read books on the craft. Enter contests, write, write, write. Join a critique group or writing group. Never stop learning. It took me almost 5 years to complete Shine Don’t Whine.
(KEEP SCROLLING, PLEASE!)
Shine Don’t Whine, Cherrilynn Bisbano [Christian Living, Inspirational, Small Group Study]
Honored to win the following awards in the in the 2020 Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference Foundations II Contest!
1st place in articles for Onward
1st in poetry for Walking Notes
3rd in poetry for He Is Risen
Thank you to Edie Melson and DiAnn Mills and to all the faculty of #BRMCWC for an incredible week of ministry and training. Thank you to Jerry Jenkins and the Jerry Jenkins Writers Guild, and to Serious Writer for your teaching. Grateful for all who pray, encourage, and support me on my writing journey.
“Here’s my pen, Lord; hold my hand.
Here’s my heart, Lord; have all of me.
*Above link is to the original version of Onward which contains additional content not included in my award winning version of the article.
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8 thoughts on “Shine or Whine”
Congratulations, Rachael, on your writing awards. You have been a real help to me and an inspiration for so many writers. Geri
Thank you, Geri. Without Jesus I can do nothing. Honored to help and encourage you and others. (One of my favorite things to do!) 🙂 Looking forward to and praying for yours and your husband’s upcoming release.
Congrats on your awards Rachael. Well done.
Enjoyed so much; thank you ladies.
Blessed to bless you, JD. Write on, my fellow scribbler.
Very good guest blog post and follow up questions! I learn so much from both Rachael and Cherrilynn and I am thankful for their encouragement. I also have to say that my publisher has a great name that sits with your blog post, “Shine-A-Light Press.“:)
Thank you, Ben. You and your writing are an encouragement and inspiration to us also, and to many others. And, yes, you’re right about your publisher’s name, “Shine-A-Light Press,” and Chris Elston, owner and author, seems like a great one to work with. He was one of my first Twitter followers—always shining the light of the Gospel and encouraging others.
Congratulations, Rachael, on your awards!!