Part 7: The Call~ Shepherd-Princes & Sarah’s Daughters~ Interviews with Pastors and their Wives in Honor of Pastor Appreciation Month 2016

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When you became a Christian, did you think you would be pastoring one day?

Heck no! -Sarah Hanlon, Forrestdale Church, Sandwich, MA

I had no idea I would be a pastor. I revered them, but it was not something I sought out or thought I could ever do. -Pastor Bruce Hanlon, Forrestdale Church, Sandwich MA

Tell me about when you realized you were called to be a Pastor / Pastor’s wife?

I went to school to be a teacher, not a pastor. I was in Mombasa Kenya teaching Bible theology, teaching pastors to be pastors. I thought maybe I needed to go and actually be steeped in it, pastoring, so I had experienced what I was teaching.  I came back to the US and ended up pastoring for 11 years in that church. I returned to Africa to Malawi and taught and pastored for 2 years and then pastored an international church in Vienna for 3 years before returning to New England to pastor a year ago.

I’ve never put the label of “pastor’s wife” or those expectations on my wife, Sarah. I’m the pastor and she’s my wife and can function in the church like all the other members. I don’t tell my wife our church members’ problems or what I counsel people about. That would be a breach in trust. -Pastor Bruce Hanlon, Forrestdale Church, Sandwich MA

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Did you think when you became a Christian you would be pastoring one day?

I had the desire to marry a preacher, but I left my life as a blank check and said, “God, you fill it in.” -Lori Ganiear, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

No. -Pastor Chip Ganiear, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

Tell me about when you realized you were called to be a Pastor / Pastor’s wife?

Life appeared dormant for awhile. In my 20’s I got called out and given a word about being like a certain bamboo tree that is dormant for years and then suddenly grows. -Lori Ganiear

I had been saved for 6 years when I went to a men’s discipleship class Pastor Campo was teaching. He didn’t know me at the time. It was the first time I had ever been given a word. Pastor Campo called me out and said, “God keeps putting your name on a list and you keep taking it off. Stop taking it off.” I went from that class pondering how God for a while had been telling me, “I want you to preach,” and I kept saying, Nah; I don’t think that’s really God. At that point God said, “Leave your name on the list; I want you to do that.” And I said, “Okay.” and started to agree with God.

It’s a privilege to be here and be a part of this ministry on the Cape. It’s always been a reference point. I remember being a new believer and coming here and I never thought I’d be doing what I’m doing. I’m looking forward to what God has for us. Grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow. It’s just the beginning.  (Pastor Ganiear is now married to Pastor Campo’s daughter, Lori. 🙂

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Tell me about when you realized you were called to be a Pastor / Pastor’s wife?

Before I became a Christian I always knew in my heart I was put here on Earth by God for a reason. I was attending my first East Coast Bible conference on Cape Cod when my pastor gave an altar call saying, “Whoever feels in their heart that God is calling them to preach the Gospel stand up.” I was very joyful being a Born Again Christian, but I had no idea until that moment that this was my calling. At that moment, God spoke to my heart and answered my lifelong question “Why was I on Earth?” He told me it was to be a pastor. -Pastor Peter Laine, Victory Chapel CFM, Dover NH

Less than a year after I gave my life to Jesus Christ I felt a pulling on my heart more and more toward God.  Before I get got saved I never thought of God, now I’m thinking about him every day, every moment. I could not get enough of Bible reading, church and fellowship with other Christians. I had a vivid dream about being a pastor’s wife which was so real that the next church service I told my pastor I had to talk to him and  it was urgent. You have to understand, we were in the middle of a Bible conference and here I was a novice Christian,  giving him the impression that I had this incredible need that could not wait. He graciously called me into his office during the service.

“I had a dream I’m going to be a pastor’s wife.” I said.

I waited for all this incredible Godly advice that I thought he would pour out, but he simply looked at me and said, “That’s nice.”

“What do I do to marry a pastor?” I asked.

I don’t know if he chuckled or held back laughter, but he simply said, “Keep serving God,” after responding  that pastors in our fellowship are already married.

“How do I get a man of God?”

“Be a woman of God.” He said. (Yup; that’s my pastor!) 🙂

I started praying and seeking God even more which led to God’s appointed time of me meeting my husband. -Ruthanne Laine, Victory Chapel CFM, Dover NH (Ruthanne is the friend, the Proverbs 31 woman I speak of in Welcome to My Dysfunction)

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Tell me about when you realized you were called to be a Pastor / Pastor’s wife?

I felt very blessed but a bit overwhelmed. It is quite an honor to be married to a pastor and a very high calling. -Chantry La Belle, Presbyterian Church, Cape Cod MA

When I was 20 years old. But I had much to learn, both about myself and about the Lord and about His truth. So it was 14 years later before I was ordained and installed in my first church.

The pastor’s calling is a calling, not to a job, but to a life. The pastor is not his own man, he’s God’s man. He’s a herald with a divine message, an ambassador for the King of kings, a watchman in Israel, a laborer in the Lord’s vineyard, a bishop of souls, an elder in Christ’s church, an example to the flock. His life is to be eminently one of self-denial, self-sacrifice, selflessness, service, and devotion. If you can do anything else at all, then do it. No man should ever dare to enter the pastorate unless he’s certain of God’s calling. Because without it, he’ll be alone and both unfit and ill-equipped for the ministry; and without it, he’ll do the church more harm than good. He’d better be sure he’s called, anointed, equipped, Spirit-filled, and gifted by God, or he should sit down, get a job, and let someone else serve the church. The responsibility of the pastorate is the most sobering to which a man can be called. It is the highest calling a man can have and requires the greatest grace of all; humility. -Pastor James La Belle, author, Presbyterian Church, Cape Cod MA

*Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily/weekly reminders & tips to pray for your pastor.

**Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge. http://energizeministries.com/latest-news/pastor-wall-of-honor/

Part 6: From the Preacher’s Kids, Questions VI to X~ A series of Interviews in Honor of Pastor Appreciation Month

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Do you have any words of encouragement for pastors and wives raising kids in the ministry, especially to those who have prodigals?

Always pray for God’s plan for them. Sometimes being a mother of a lost child is hard and you kill yourself over their condition but through my life God has told my mother many many times, “stop praying for what you think they need and hand them over to me for what I know they need.” –Ben Laine, 16 years old. Son of Pastor Peter and Ruthann Laine, Victory Chapel, CFM, Dover NH

 

First of all, if your kids are young train them up like your own little disciples. Don’t go easy and don’t give them an option. You assume they want to follow God and bring them up in that way. Train them for the ministry even from a young age.

If you have prodigals this could be an opposite situation than the younger kids. Do not judge them and condemn them. Ask God to show you how by love to win them over. They already know what’s right to do so you harping on them all the time will only push them away. Pray for them and don’t push religion on them but by your example shown, they may be won over. – Lysandra Winslow, 24 years old, Daughter of Pastor Greg and Suzanne Winslow, Missionaries to Zihuatanejo, Mexico

 

Keep praying for and loving them. I really believe that’s how I got saved.  Because my parents were prayer warriors! -Faith Scott, Second Generation Pastor’s Wife, Daughter of Reverend Ralph and Mary Wise, Potter’s House CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

Keep praying! My grandmother prayed 12 children back into the kingdom!- Maria Winslow, Daughter of Pastor Tim and Faith Scott, Victory Chapel, Hagerstown, MD

 

Don’t preach to your children, they’re not your congregation. Teach your children, by example in the way of the Lord with utmost patience, and it will be the core foundation in their life choices. They want to do what is right, but don’t know how, and need your love, guidance, encouragement, and forgiveness.  If they stray, pray for them to find their way back to the Father. -David

 

God first. Family second! Then the church. Never, never, never, put the church before your spouse and kids. If some church emergency does come up, be sure to explain to your kids why you need to go, but be sure to always make it up to them. As much as possible, attend their games, recitals, fairs, concerts, etc.. -Pastor Schaffer, New Life, 2nd Generation Pastor  Altoona PA, (His son recently became a Youth Pastor.)

Is there anything else you like to say to the Church about being a PK?

I’m sorry I waited so long to give my life to Christ. I could have avoided so much heartache and depression. -Faith Scott

 

Thank u for being patient with us!!! -Maria Winslow

 

Don’t expect PK’s to be any different than anyone else. We are individuals not clones of our parents.  -David

 

Don’t ever say, “You’re the pastor’s kid, you should know better.” Because our response that we keep to ourselves is, “You call yourself and adult Christian; act like one!” -Pastor Schaffer

For those of you are PKs and are now pastoring and raising PKs of your own: How has being raised as a PK equipped you to parent your own?

I had a great example from my own parents growing up. They were always there for me and my sisters. I also had some bad examples of pastors I served alongside, whose kids ran as far as they could away from the church. -Pastor Schaffer

For those of you who are now pastors or pastors wives; What are your thoughts on being the second or third generation in this call?

My dad always said I was crazy. He said “I can’t believe you are signing up for this after all you’ve seen.”

How awesome to have this legacy. -Lori Ganiear,  Pastor’s Wife, Daughter of Pastor Paul and Linda Campo, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

 

We keep saying to each other, what a great heritage! -Faith Scott

 

I am the third generation pastors wife in my family.Knowing what to expect in this instance doesn’t matter. Nothing can prepare you for this life, but God is good and faithful! -Maria Winslow

Is there anything you would like to say to your parents, or tell us about your parents?

My folks are an awesome Godly example. I appreciate that they have stood for what’s right even when it’s not popular My dad will not be manipulated. I would not have the life I have now if they hadn’t made the choices they did. I know what I would have been without God, and it’s not good. My dad had been a real rock. Steady. -Lori Ganiear

 

My parents have always had a certain grace with me through hard times which has always been relieving and helpful. -Ben laine

 

Thank you for being diligent and consistent in correcting me and teaching me God’s way.

One of the most important things my parents instilled in me since I was little was a personal devotional time with God which consisted of reading His word and praying or worshipping Him.  –Lysandra Winslow

 

Thanks for running the race and making it!  You have sat the example and now you are both with Christ!  And because of that I will see you both again someday! -Faith Scott

 

My parents as well as Matthew’s parents have left us with a rich inheritance that we are so grateful for. Thanks to them and their sacrifice we have the marriage and family we are blessed with. They shaped us into who we are and and gave us the tools to survive this life and we are blessed!! -Maria Winslow

 

Thank you, my loving parents for always allowing me to be who I am, loving me under all circumstances. I have learned so much about forgiveness and living life as the Father would have us. You have walked the walk as the example of how to endure the trials and tribulations that may come our way.  -David

 

They were and continue to be my hero’s of the faith. They raised me well and I am forever grateful for the Godly heritage. -Pastor Schaffer

*Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily/weekly reminders & tips to pray for your pastor.

**Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge. http://energizeministries.com/latest-news/pastor-wall-of-honor/

 

Part 5: From the Preacher’s Kids~ Questions I to V~ A Series of Interviews in Honor of Pastor Appreciation Month

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What is it like being raised as the preacher’s Kid? What are some pros and cons?

Being a preacher’s kid is a life that no one can understand unless they too have been raised in it.Through the years my parents and others have said that along with being raised a preacher’s kid comes perspective that most kids my age are not blessed with. With this perspective I have been able to make hard decisions for God that have blessed me.

A burden that comes with being a pastor’s kid is having to be an example for many others. People in the congregation sometimes forget the fact that even pastors kids are human and mess up, and even with forgiveness a lot of people are hurt and affected by wrongdoings committed by the pastor’s kid.  -Ben Laine 16 years old. Son of Pastor Peter and Ruthann Laine, Victory Chapel, CFM, Dover NH

Cons: Living in fishbowl. Balancing privacy and having everyone observing your life. Always looked at as an example. You always have to think how what you do affects others. –Lori Ganiear,  Pastor’s Wife, Daughter of Pastor Paul and Linda Campo, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

Hahaha… Well, I don’t know how it feels any other way. But growing up as the pastor’s kid I felt everyone had their eyes on us expecting us to have a high standard of living. Which I believe for me it wasn’t that hard because of the way my parents brought us up. Since I was young I was taught the word of God, how to sit still and listen in church, how to have my own time with the Lord.

Pros: You get treated and respected as if you were the pastor himself ( at times that is) …you get to meet and even hang out with mighty men and women of God that otherwise you probably wouldn’t get to. Also as a preacher’s kid you get to suggest how to do or not do things in around the  church, cuz, well he is your dad! The cons: Missing church is frowned upon. You have to share your parents with other people. You see your parents go through hardships and see how some people just take advantage of them or speak lies about them.  –Lysandra Winslow, Daughter of Pastor Greg and Suzanne Winslow, Missionaries to Zihuatanejo, Mexico

I got to see God move in more ways than one.  Also, lol,  there were always people at our table sharing our food! -Faith Scott, Second Generation Pastor’s Wife, Daughter of Reverend Ralph and Mary Wise, Potter’s House CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

Pro: You have a definite advantage in your marriage and child raising that some couples won’t have. With both of us being pastors kids and having parents that love God and each other it becomes our inheritance.

Con: You are held to a higher standard and it can be frustrating sometimes. -Maria Winslow, Third Generation Pastor’s Wife, Daughter of Pastor Tim and Faith Scott, Victory Chapel, Hagerstown, MD

I didn’t know anything different. I was introduced to faith in God at an early age and have always felt the presence of God in my life. People expect PK’s to be saints, but we are sinners by nature just like all other human beings. People are really hard on PK’s parents when they aren’t perfect little angels. -David

It can be very difficult. Church people expect you to be perfect little angels. It’s okay for their kids to mess up, but not the “preacher’s” kid.  I honestly don’t think there are any pros to it.  Pastor Schaffer, New Life, 2nd Generation Pastor  Altoona PA, (His son recently became a Youth Pastor.)

How is/ was your childhood as a PK different from other children?

We were always under the microscope. -Faith Scott

Moving a lot, but rich in culture. I have been all over the world and have met people from everywhere which I would not have been able to experience otherwise. -Maria Winslow

It seemed pretty much the same to me as any other Christian home. We had the same trials and tribulations as all families. I did attend both adult (with my dad) and youth bible classes and choir. I also loved following him around as he ministered to people in sickness and in health.  -David

My parents were very good at letting us be kids. There were times however when I’d get passed over for a part in the Christmas play because I was the pastor’s son or that I’d be told I couldn’t win a prize in children’s church because of the same reason. Pastor Schaffer

Do you feel you are/were treated differently as a PK than other children in church by adults and by your peers?

Pretty normal. Depends on the person. I just tried to be real. -Lori ganiear

Yes, we were treated with more respect, I believe .  Lysandra Winslow,

We are raised to a certain standard which sometime becomes a frustration when thinking that we “didn’t choose this life.” –Ben Laine

It seemed liked adults expected me to be more like my dad, but I’m not. He is very outgoing, animated and speaks with confidence. I have always been an introvert, soft spoken, and it is difficult for me to speak in front of people. I prefer small personal intimate gatherings.  -David

Adults definitely treated me different. My peers just treated me like another kid. -Pastor Schaffer

Did you resist the Gospel when you were younger and if so, why?

No. -Lori Ganiear

Resisting the gospel was never a problem for me. Growing up in church I was fortunate enough to see so many miracles done by Jesus, therefore leading me to not be able to ever disbelieve anything in the Bible.

I have seen multiple healings, myself included when I was 5 years old. I had major seizures and doctors were dumbfounded. Pastor Mitchell prayed over me and I felt a wind go down my arm. I knew it was the breath of God and from there on I was healed. –Ben Laine

Ben, you forgot to mention it’s a miracle that you exist in the first place! You were a miracle baby.

Very true!! –Ben Laine

No.  Lysandra Winslow

Yes.  I think I didn’t understand and I wanted to live in the world like my friends. -Faith Scott

No, I never did. I had a healthy fear of God and Hell and even when I wasn’t living right I knew I was wrong and I was afraid. -Maria Winslow

Absolutely not. My favorite book, from the time I could read until I was ten years old, was a children’s Bible with beautiful pictures to go along with the text.  On my tenth birthday I received my first adult bible and read it daily. 

I have always had a deep conviction in my heart for the Lord and understanding that He is the way. When I turned 16 and starting driving and group dating, I started bending to peer pressure like all teenagers. I think my parents must have prayed a lot during my teenage years. Fortunately, I always had this voice in my head telling me when I going to cross the line and was deeply convicted. Scripture would pop into my head reminding me what God expected from us. I learned later that the Holy Spirit was working to keep me on the straight and narrow.  -David

I never resisted the Gospel. But at age 12, I did tell my best friend that if I ever said I want to be a pastor, to just shoot me. Yet here I am because it’s the call, not a job. -Pastor Schaffer

You’ve been privileged to be raised with Godly parents. Do you have any advice for the youth who are PKs and also for the Church Kid?

God sat me down in the front row seat and said, “watch this.” I watched people’s good and bad decisions play out before my eyes. I didn’t want the reputation of being a wayward PK, like others. It’s just not worth it. I knew the bridge was out if I went that way, so I set myself towards God. -Lori Ganiear

There is an assault against PKs. Even if you are raised in a Christian home doesn’t mean you won’t go through stuff. Everybody goes through hard times. -Lori Ganiear

Listen to your parents. Ha ha. –Ben Laine

My advice is to see it as a privilege that God has spared you from living in the world, messing up your life and wasting it.  –Lysandra Winslow,  

*Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily/weekly reminders & tips to pray for your pastor.

**Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge. http://energizeministries.com/latest-news/pastor-wall-of-honor/

Part 4: More Precious than Rubies~ Sarah’s Daughters (Interviews with Pastor’s Wives for Pastor Appreciation Month 2016)

 

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Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:10 NLT

Tell me about when you realized you were called to be a Pastor’s wife?

I’ve always had a burden for others so when I became a pastor’s wife, it made sense to me. –Donna

For me it wasn’t a calling so much as a surrender of my plans to whatever God would want us to do. I had my own agenda but God had better idea. -Kerry, CFM

If you could tell your church anything about yourself, your family, or anything else what would it be? What’s on your heart?

We love you. We support you. We need you to support the church. We need you to attend faithfully. We need you to give faithfully. We need you to use your talents faithfully. –Rosemarie, small rural Assemblies of God church.

That we love them. A lot. Vika Aaltonen, Missionary Wife, The Door, CFM, Helsinki, Finland.

What are some duties you perform for the church on a regular basis that your congregation may not be aware of?

Cleaning, nursery duties. Help with books and paying bills. Overseeing things, making sure people have what they need. -Lori Ganiear, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

What is your biggest challenge pastoring?

Being compared to other pastors’ wives. Trying to put aside the frustration of your physical limitations as you age and people expect you to be able to respond as you did when you were 30 years younger. Linda Campo, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

What most breaks your heart?

People who are just there for themselves and don’t do anything. -Sarah Hanlon, Forrestdale Church, Sandwich MA

When you’re not seeing what you want to see in ministry. -Lori Ganiear

Backsliders. -Kerry

When I see someone backsliding. –Chantry labelle, Presbyterian Church, Cape Cod.

Do you ever want to quit?

Yes.  –Rosemarie

Yes and no. -Donna

Absolutely! You say it to yourself to make yourself feel better, but you can’t (quit). -Lori Ganiear

What keeps you going?

New believers, helping hurting people.  –Rosemarie

Jesus. Love and prayer. -Donna.

Knowing that the Lord upholds me.  –Chantry Labelle

I do everything as unto the Lord. That enables me to endure what I need to as a pastor’s wife. -Lori Ganiear

What most encourages you?

Finding friends. Praise. -Donna

Seeing growth in those who are part of the congregation, watching children and families excited about their life in Christ and about sharing that truth with others. –Rosemarie

Scripture, my husband and friends.  Chantry Labelle

One of the children we used to pick up for church when we were missionaries in Trinidad called twenty years later to thank me. -Alejandra Williams, Victory chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

The change in people’s lives. -Sarah Hanlon

Who inspires you?

Pastor Mitchell, (of Potter’s hose CFM, Prescott, Arizona.)  -Kerry, CFM

I have a small accountability women’s group. The relationships there help me in my personal Christian walk. -Sarah Hanlon

People in our congregation who work 40+ hours a week, have families and commitments, yet still come and give of time in church. Bible studies and outreach.  –Rosemarie

I have respect for seasoned pastor’s wives who have gone before me. -Lori Ganiear

Are you ever lonely? If so, how do you counter it?

Our Assemblies of God district has an amazing group of ladies and they work so hard to keep a connection.  –Rosemarie

It can be lonely at times, but you do get close to your spouse and you have to get close to God. -Lori Ganiear

What kind of challenges do you face as a Pastor’s wife raising Preacher’s Kids?

Life in the fishbowl. Sarah Hanlon

The assumptions and expectations of others.  -Donna

I think the same as everyone else. I want to hold them to the same standards even if we are not pastoring since the goal is to have God-loving, God-fearing children. That’s why we have standards, right? Not because of the position  of ministry. Vika Aaltonen

Making sure our children never resent the ministry. Making sure we keep our focus on our family when it needs to be. Trying to keep the church business at the church.  –Rosemarie 

What is the hardest thing about being a Pastor’s wife?

It is hard to feel like part of the church as you don’t exactly have a pastor and you can’t exactly fit. -Donna

Glass bubble syndrome and compassion fatigue.  –Rosemarie, Pastor’s wife, small rural Assemblies of God church.  

When someone in the church says something hateful or is disgruntled about the ministry or my husband.  Chantry Labelle

When people use it as an insult. “Well,” people will say, “for a pastor’s wife, she should know better.” when my actions don’t line up with their preconceived notions, or if I act like an actual human, On the flip side, I have had close family members accuse me of trying to be holier now, in a disingenuous way because, “You’re a pastor’s wife now.” – Anonymous

When people leave the church after you invest years in them and they leave without even a phone all and don’t even return your calls. -Mary Webb, Church 180 CFM,  Missasagua, Canada

Do you have someone you can talk to for counsel, direction, encouragement, prayer, someone you can be really open with? What about friends?

Yes. My husband and a few close friends.  Chantry Labelle

My pastor. Other pastors and wives. -Alejandra Williams

How do you keep your heart and zeal for people and God, in spite of people’s failings and some turning against you?

Keeping focus on those who are growing and learning and sharing.  –Rosemarie

All we can take to Heaven is people. Investing everything in people is worthwhile. The works of God will outlive us. I just have to do my part. We have to have an eternal perspective because in this life, we may not see everything you are hoping for. -Lori Ganiear

What are some things your church could do to lighten your load or refresh you and your family, so you can better serve God and them?

Take more initiative to grow and feed themselves, Take more initiative to be involved in ministry.  –Rosemarie

Participate more in church activities. Vika Aaltonen

Pray for my family and show hospitality to our visitors and each other.  Chantry Labelle

Be nice to your pastor and his wife. Give them cards for birthdays, pastor appreciation, and Christmas- and not just empty cards! Find out where they like to eat, give gift cards for groceries or gas. -Anonymous.

Pray. Doing practical things to help like cleaning. Pastors and wives and get in a grind and need to get away sometimes and be refreshed. Everyone does. -Lori Ganiear

For the Church to love people who come through the door. If everyone is where they need to be then the load is lighter. -Alejandra Williams

What do you see as the biggest threat to the Church today, not your church specifically?

Lack of prayer.  -Kerry

Complacency. Lack of commitment. Busyness. –Rosemarie

The ungodly influence of the world on our children. Chantry Labelle

Worldliness. Me, me, me, consumerism mentality. Vika Aaltonen

People won’t stand for Christ. You will be deceived if you don’t stand. People addicted to drama. They have an ankle deep relationship with God.  -Lori Ganiear

What do you think is the reason for the worldly Church? Ignorance or compromise?

Both. Biblical ignorance and they’re afraid to speak up; they’ve watered down the Gospel. -Sarah Hanlon

What do you believe is the key to revival?

Prayer. -Kerry

Personal heart change.  Rosemarie

The Holy Spirit’s work in our own hearts. Chantry Labelle

Personal revival and in families can jump to others. The church becoming desperate and coming together and praying for revival. –Vika Aaltonen

People need to fall in love with Jesus.  -Lori Ganiear

What is a favorite memory of pastoring?

I count it a privilege when people trust you and you can get a phone call at any time, good or bad. One morning a sister from the church who was in line for adopting called to say there was a 2 year old boy at the hospital waiting for a new family. Our family stopped what we were doing, went to the store and bought them a car seat, diapers, food. I love playing my small role and witnessing how God answers prayers. –Vika Aaltonen

What is the funniest or craziest encounter, situation you’ve experienced during your ministry that you are free to share?

Getting lice from one of the children we picked up for church. But it was worth it. They are still serving God today. -Alejandra Williams

When we pastored in Lithuania, a young guy came and sat in the row in front of me. He was fine until the preaching part. He kept turning and asking if I liked the church, smirking and making comments saying how the pastor was wrong. I kept thinking, if only you knew that was my husband preaching. Finally, I got up and hid in the nursery. I thought it funny that out of all the people, he picked me to dump on. –Vika Aaltonen

What is your favorite thing about being a Pastor’s wife?

Praying for people and the presence of God falls on them.  -Alejandra Williams

Seeing God change someone, when they get it and God creates this beautiful creature out of them and they go on to the destiny God has for them. -Mary Webb

Seeing God change people’s lives and they are blessed and go on to do the will of God. -Lori Ganiear

Loving people.  –Rosemarie

Being married to my husband. -Kerry

The Pastor.  -Donna

 (Great answer, Kerry and Donna! 😉 )

*Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily/weekly reminders & tips to pray for your pastor.

**Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge. http://energizeministries.com/latest-news/pastor-wall-of-honor/

Part 3~ Shepherd-Princes & Sarah’s Daughters (A Godly Heritage) ~Interviews with Pastors & Wives in Honor of Pastor Appreciation Month

Simple definition of Heritage: noun  her·i·tage \ˈher-ə-tij, ˈhe-rə-\         the traditions, achievements, beliefs, etc., that are part of the history of a group or nation   Merriam-Webster’s Learner’s Dictionary

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:5-9 NASB

The lines have fallen to me in pleasant places; Indeed, my heritage is beautiful to me. Psalms 16:6 NASB

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Did you think when you became a Christian you would be pastoring one day?

No. I told God I would never be a missionary.  -Suzanne Winslow, Pastor’s Wife, Missionary to Zihuatanejo, Mexico

No.  -Pastor Greg Winslow, Missionary, Zihuatanejo Mexico

 

Never.  -Pastor Paul and Nancy Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

No.  -Pastor Tim and Faith Scott, The Potter’s house CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

No way!!  -Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

No, not really. I did not want to be a pastor. But God won out! There was no one time when God told me. My walk with God has been full of twists and turns. Always full of new challenges and points where God has led me and waited for me to respond. God called me into the ministry. There was no denying or putting it aside. I did not choose to pastor I told God long ago that He was in full control. I meant it then and I still do.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

What is your biggest challenge pastoring?

Waiting on God’s timing. For fruit, favor, revelation, etc. A lot of patience is needed.   -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

 

Fighting discouragement when you work so hard with someone and they don’t follow Jesus or betray you.  -Pastor Greg Winslow, Missionary, Zihuatanejo Mexico

A few questions for pastor’s wives: Are you ever lonely? If so, how do you counter it?

Not as much anymore. It used to be bad but God has helped me find comfort in the companionship of my kids and husband.   -Nacy Halas, Pastor’s Wife,Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

Yes. I pray, make phone calls.  Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

 

Yes, at times. The way out of that is worshiping and spending time with God.  -Suzanne Winslow, Pastor’s Wife, Missionary, Zihuatanejo Mexico

What is the hardest thing about being a Pastor’s wife?

Knowing what Jesus could do in transforming a person’s life if they would just make the right decisions and watching them make the wrong ones and miss out on what God has for them.   -Nacy Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA 

 

Being away from friends and family.  –Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD 

 

The demands on your time. It’s like a huge family. They all need care, like they are your children. -Suzanne Winslow, Pastor’s Wife, Missionary to Zihuatanejo Mexico 

What is your favorite thing about being a Pastor/ Pastor’s wife?

Knowing it’s God’s will.   Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

 

I love all the relationships I’ve made with people all over the world.  -Nacy Halas, Pastor’s Wife,Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

To see people grow, change, come to their potential and become men and women of God. When people stick and with a passion is what excites me. The miracles. When marriages are put back together.   -Pastor Greg and Suzanne Winslow, Missionaries to Zihuatanejo Mexico

What kind of challenges do you face as a Pastor’s wife raising Preacher’s Kids?

Always knowing you could and probably will make a mistake. Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD (Maria and Matthew have 4 children.)

 

 Comparison.  -Faith Scott, Preacher’s Kid and 2nd generation Pastor’s Wife (Faith and Tim have 3 children) 

 

Trying to find the balance between making sure they are examples to everyone else who is watching as a guideline on how to raise their kids and being gracious and understanding that they are kids like everyone else and need our patience and grace. -Nacy Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA (Nancy and Paul have 4 children)

 

Trying to juggle homeschooling. -Suzanne Winslow, Pastor’s Wife, Missionary, Zihuatanejo Mexico (Suzanne and Greg have 6 children.)

What most breaks your heart?

When converts leave the Faith.  -Pastor Tim and Faith Scott, The Potter’s house CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

Brothers and sisters who have left the will of God.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

What keeps you going?

Others that went before us and what Christ did for me.   -Pastor Tim and Faith Scott, The Potter’s house CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

God keeps me going. Thoughts of the effects quitting might have on my family and others. Thoughts of not wanting to be out of the will of God. -Pastor Paul Halas, 1st generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

The call of God on my life. The support of my family and the devotion of my wife.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD   

What most encourages you? 

What most encourages you?  The Word of God and my wife.  Pastor Paul Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

When converts get revelation.  -Pastor Tim, The Potter’s house CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

Seeing people make it for God.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM,  Hagerstown MD

 

To see our children and people we pastor raised up and walk with God. -Pastor Greg and Suzanne Winslow, Missionaries to Zihuatanejo Mexico

How do you keep your heart and zeal for people and God, in spite of people’s failings and some turning against you?

A personal relationship with my Jesus. Praying daily and reading the Word.  -Pastor Tim and Faith Scott, The Potter’s house CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

P: That’s something God has to do in you. N: I remind myself I’m doing it for Jesus, not for people. As long as He is pleased with my life, that’s what counts.  -Pastor Paul and Nacy Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

By making a decision to always forgive, knowing we fight against principalities and powers. -Pastor Greg and Suzanne Winslow, Missionaries to Zihuatanejo Mexico

 

As many times as I’ve had to ask for forgiveness, I ask God to remind me of that when people hurt me. It keeps it in perspective for me. (Mark 11:25-26) I know I’m gonna need more forgiveness before I am done!  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

I have heard people say “The pastor has it so easy, he doesn’t have to go to work. What does he do all day? All he has to do is write a few sermons a week. So, the following few questions are aimed at setting the record straight. What does a day in your life as a pastor look like?

I’m a working pastor.  -Pastor Paul Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

As a working pastor I am extremely busy. Picture your normal day with kids, spouse, and job issues. Then add preparing sermons, follow up, outreach, and church responsibilities on top of that. Basically there are no days off!!   -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM,  Hagerstown MD

What are some duties you perform for the church on a regular basis that your congregation may not be aware of?

N: Hours of book-work, cleaning, etc. P: All the hours of counseling in off hours, all the study time.  -Pastor Paul and Nacy Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

All of them! Ha ha, we’re just a baby church so everything from mow the lawn to cleaning the church.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM,   Hagerstown MD

What do you see as the biggest threat to the Church today?

Luke warmness.  -Pastor Tim Scott, The Potter’s house CFM, Roselle Park, NJ

 

Spiritual indifference. Apathy.   -Pastor Paul Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

Apathy… To God’s word, the lost and his church.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM,  Hagerstown MD

 

Lukewarmness. Becoming passive, complacent, being satisfied leading to lazyness and powerlessness is a dangerous place. -Pastor Greg Winslow, Missionary to Zihuatanejo Mexico

What has being a pastor cost you?

“Cost?” -Pastor Greg and Suzanne Winslow, Missionaries to Zihuatanejo Mexico  (They both hesitated at this question at first. I waited for their answers.)

Leaving family in the US. Less stuff, but I don’t consider it a loss, but a privilege.-Suzanne Winslow, Pastor’s wife, Missionary to Zihuatanejo, Mexico

I never thought about it. I got the call and answered. Grief and grey hairs. Family time. Putting aside our own will to meet others’. I had to learn there is more to being a pastor than preaching. Ministry is hard and heartbreaking, but it’s rewarding. Knowing and serving God is a privilege, not a burden. If one person gets saved it’s worth it, because you can’t put a price on a soul.  -Pastor Greg Winslow, Missionary to Zihuatanejo Mexico  

 

It costs you everything. Had we not pastored we’d own a home, we’d have a lot more money… But then again, being in God’s will, we don’t look at it like it costs us anything. I think it costs a lot more to not do the will of God.  -Pastor Paul Halas, Victory Chapel CFM, Billerica MA

 

I thought this was kind of a funny question! I cannot think of anything that pastoring has cost me. I guess there might be a deeper answer but honestly my brain does not work like that. God runs the show! It’s His will, His bill!  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor,  Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

Who inspires you?

Lots of people inspire me but my top five are: #1 my dad, #2 my pastor, #3 my wife, #4 my two brothers, and #5 my best friend.  -Pastor Matthew Winslow, 2nd generation Pastor, Victory Chapel CFM Hagerstown MD

 

Anybody who is persevering in the faith.   -Pastor Greg Winslow, Missionary, Zihuatanejo Mexico

Is there anything you would like to tell us about your parents?    

My parents would pray and read their bible together every day. They were prayer warriors. They prayed for those on their list individually. I believe that’s why I am where I am today. They would say to us, “Read your Bible and pray, or you won’t make it as a Christian.”

Thanks for running the race and making it!  You have set the example and now you are both with Christ!  And because of that I will see you both again someday!  -Faith Scott, Preacher’s Kid and 2nd generation Pastor’s Wife

 

My parents as well as Matthew’s parents have left us with a rich inheritance we are so grateful for. Thanks to them and their sacrifice we have the marriage and family that we are blessed with. They shaped us by raising us up with the Gospel and their example into who we are and and gave us the tools to survive this life and we are blessed!!  -Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD, 

Do you have any words of encouragement for pastors and wives raising kids in the ministry, especially to those who have prodigals?

Keep praying! My grandmother prayed 12 children back into the kingdom!  –Maria Winslow, Preacher’s Kid, 3rd generation Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Hagerstown MD

*Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge.

**Pray for your pastor! Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily reminders and prompts to pray for your pastor.

© 2016 Rachael M Colby | Tattoo It On Your Heart

Part 2~ Shepherd-Princes & Sarah’s Daughters ~A Series of Interviews with Pastors and Their Wives in Honor of Pastor Appreciation Month 2016

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Pastor Schaffer and his wife Suzanne answered my questions separately, as have several of the couples I interviewed. I thought it would be interesting to put them together for this post.

Pastor and Suzanne,          Thank you for your honesty, your heart to serve Christ and His Church and for your sense of humor.

For a bellyful of laughs and sometimes a good Gospel kick in the pants, visit Suzanne’s blog at: http://notenoughchocolate.blogspot.com/

(The scripture above is my contribution to this post.)

Pastor Wayne & Suzanne Shaffer~  New Life, Altoona PA   

Both raised in Christian homes.

Born Again:  Pastor Shaffer 43 years / Suzanne Shaffer:40 years      

Married: 25 years   Children: Son 22 & daughter  19

Full time ministry: 25 years. Lead pastor: 16 years. Pastored: 3 churches.    

Missions trips to 5 countries.    

Did you think when you became a Christian you would be pastoring one day?

No. -P

In high school I had a desire to be a pastor’s wife. I have no idea why! If I had known how hard it is I never would have wanted it. PW

Why did you become a Pastor?

The call of God. I was called when I was 16 traveling with a Christian singing group. -P

I have heard people say “The pastor has it so easy, he doesn’t have to go to work. What does he do all day? All he has to do is write a few sermons a week. So, the following few questions are aimed at setting the record straight. What does a day in your life as a pastor look like?

I wish I knew. It is never the same! 

What are some duties you perform for the church on a regular basis that your congregation may not be aware of?

Building/grounds maintenance, bulletin, counseling, vehicle repair/maintenance, visitation, set audio, lighting and video, checking on financials, etc… -P

On average how much time does it take you to put together a sermon, including research, study, etc.? How much time in personal Bible study,praying?

8-10 hours for a sermon. 30 minutes -1 hour

What has being a Pastor cost you?

It has cost me nothing yet everything. There is no price too great when serving the Lord.

What has been the most unexpected hardship to Pastoring?

Mean “Christians” (in quotes because I’m not sure they’re all saved!) -PW

Living in the fishbowl. I knew it was there (I’m a PK), but wow! It can be so draining. -P  (Pastor Shaffer is a 2nd generation pastor and their son recently became a Youth Pastor.) 🙂

What most breaks your heart?

People who hear the Word week after week and never allow the Spirit of God to transform them. -P

People going to the altar week after week for years but not willing to change. -PW

Do you ever want to quit?

I quit every Sunday and hire myself back every Monday. P

Most of the time. -PW

What keeps you going?

It truly is just being obedient to the call of the Lord. If God ever tells me to stop, I will. -P

The thought of retirement in the next 20-25 years ha ha. Knowing that a life outside of God’s will is a miserable life. -PW

Pastors and wives: Do you have someone you can talk to for counsel, direction, encouragement, prayer, someone you can be really open with? What about friends?

 Yes I do. I have several individuals I can confide in and seek counsel from.

Yes. Long time friends. No one local. -PW

What most encourages you?

I have an incredible church board. We spend most of our meetings rejoicing in what God is doing and praying for direction and more of the  Holy Spirit.-P

Who inspires you?

Pastors that have been faithful through so much. I have had incredible pastor role models and mentors.

 What has been the most unexpected benefit to pastoring?

Having one of my students, then youth pastor become the District Youth Director of Illinois.

What kind of challenges do you face as a Pastor’s wife raising Preacher’s Kids?

Expectations. People telling me I need to be more involved.

What is the hardest thing about being a Pastor’s wife? 

Being in the spotlight, expected to be perfect, people twisting my words.

What is your favorite thing about being Pastor’s wife?            

Knowing that it’s what God wants. -PW

How do you keep your heart and zeal for people and God, in spite of people’s failings and some turning against you?

Years ago I came to the conclusion that we are all sinful by nature and that without the power and presence of the Holy Spirit in a person’s life on a daily basis they will always give in to that sinful nature. So I don’t take it personally anymore. -P

Learning to let things go as soon as they happen. Not allowing bitterness to creep in. -PW

What is the hardest part of being a Pastor?

Balancing home, work and ministry.

What are some things your church could do to lighten your load or refresh you and your family, so you can better serve God and them?

Convey to the congregation that we have office/working hours just like they do and to try and be considerate of our personal time. Don’t call unless it’s an emergency and don’t expect to get a call or text back on my day off. -P

If you could tell your church anything about yourself, your family, or anything else what would it be? What’s on your heart?

We are people just like you. Same struggles and passions. Same tragedies and triumphs. Don’t put us on a pedestal, but imitate us as we imitate Christ.  -P

Stop playing church and get serious, want to see the miraculous in your life? Get right with God every day of the week.-PW

What do you see as the biggest threat to the church today?

Apathy to the Gospel and a false gospel of law and legalism as opposed to grace being preached and taught in many churches. -P

Christians who are legalistic and just plain mean. -PW

 What do you believe is the key to revival?

When the people of God on an individual basis go after God with everything in them, this will bring revival. -P

Hearts that seek God and His kingdom with everything in them. -PW

What are your favorite memories of pastoring?

The joys of seeing a family share in that moment of a family member coming to Christ or Water Baptism. -P

The weddings, the baptisms, the people who have had life-changing encounters with the Lord. -PW

What is the funniest or craziest situation you’ve experienced during your ministry that you are free to share?

The guy who would shout out, “And women too” whenever anyone would close in prayer with “Amen.” (This is actually a very mild story. I have hundreds I could share, but that’s for another book.) -P

I have way too many to list! (Some will be in my own book) One is the lady who told me, “You’re so different from (former pastor’s wife), I think I need you in smaller doses.” Who says that? How was I supposed to take that? -PW           (…WOW!)

Is there anything else you would like to share that hasn’t been covered?

Trust God, stay faithful and persevere in all things! -Pastor Schaffer

Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge.

Pray for your pastor! Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily reminders and prompts to pray for your pastor.

© 2016 Rachael M Colby | Tattoo It On Your Heart

Shepherd-Princes & Sarah’s Daughters ~ A Series of Interviews with Pastors and Their Wives in Honor of Pastor Appreciation Month 2016, (Part 1)

In honor of Pastor Appreciation Month, October’s posts will feature interviews with Born Again Christian pastors and their wives from around the world. Some I know personally, others I don’t. There are also a few interviews with preacher’s kids, (PKs).The participants represent a variety of churches- Baptist, Pentecostal, Non-denominational, Presbyterian… I will be posting several times throughout the month.

My intention is to bless ministers. I want to introduce people to the life and heart of pastors and their wives so they see them as the heroes of the faith they are, and also as people who need the love and support of their congregations. 

I believe education can bring understanding, which brings respect and appreciation for one another, maybe even make us pray a little more for each other. The churches featured range from small struggling pioneer works to established larger ones on three different continents.There is no compare factor here as far as I’m concerned as we’re all called to do what God calls us to, and there is nothing better than fulfilling what God has for each of us. I believe there is no insignificant task when we are in God’s will, but all our loads feel lighter with a little appreciation.

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And I will give you shepherds according to My heart, who will feed you with knowledge and understanding. Jeremiah 3:15 NKJV

They opened their mouths and jewels came tumbling out. I tried to catch them all, lest any fall to the ground. Oh God; woe is me. This is holy ground.

I set out to bless pastors and wives with this project, but in the process, I have been blessed, challenged, humbled. They have shown me my poverty. I am made rich by the words of their testimony. They have brought me low, to the foot of the cross, the highest place on this side of eternity. I have laughed, I have cried, I have repented. Oh wretched man that I am…

“God, change me. I want a heart like theirs, wholly after You, one willingly given for the cause of winning souls. Jesus, I want to know you, to honor You and to make You known.”

I saw their humanity and the Divine Who dwells in them. They are leaking Jesus. They are humble and mighty. They are convicting. Their hearts are beautiful. I am honored to shine the light on them. Allow me to introduce you to some of God’s shepherd-princes and Sarah’s daughters.

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What has being a pastor/ pastor’s wife cost you?

It has cost me nothing yet everything. There is no price too great when serving the Lord.   -Pastor Wayne Shaffer,  New Life AG, Altoona PA

 

My will for the will of God.  -Pastor Patrick Jordan, The Door CFM,  Jamaica West Indies

 

We left our daughters at 16 and 18 to become a missionaries, which was the hardest part.  Also we closed 2 businesses, gave both our vehicles to people who needed them, and all our furniture and belongings.                     -Pastor Raul and Stephanie Delcid, Potter’s House CFM, Ecuador

Jesus said, “Truly I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or farms, for My sake and for the gospel’s sake, but that he will receive a hundred times as much now in the present age, houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and farms, along with persecutions; and in the age to come, eternal life. Mark 10:29 – 30 NASB     

What is the hardest part of being a pastor/ pastor’s wife?

I think the hardest thing about being a pastor for me is the fact that I do not know how much of a difference I am actually making.                             -Rev. Michael Duncan, speaker, author, Pastor of Mountain View Baptist Church, Darrington, WA

 

The roller coaster ride of your heart, feeling the hurt of others.Seeing someone begin the race and not finish. When people leave, feeling the empty place that no one else is going to fill and realizing that could happen to me too.  –Alejandra Williams, Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel, Cape Cod, CFM

 

Focusing on a pastor’s primary job, which is an intimate relationship with the Lord and one’s family. The temptation is to make solving church-member problems my priority.  -Dr.George W. (Bill) Nichols, Ph.D., Pastor, missions worker, author.

 

What is your biggest challenge pastoring?

Attempting to reach the youth who have been brought up in a culture that is greatly disconnected from a Biblical foundation.                                       -Pastor, Transformation Ministries, Ohio.

 

We have to be intentional about setting time for family and for us as a couple. -Pastor Bruce Hanlon, Forrestdale Church, Sandwich, MA

 

What is your favorite thing about being a pastor/pastor’s wife?

Encouraging others to rise up, imparting the vision to them. When they catch the vision! Helping people, ministering to them. -Pastor Roger Williams, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod, MA

 

Seeing God change people’s lives and they are blessed and go on to do the will of God. -Lori Ganiear, Pastor’s Wife, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod MA

 

What are your favorite memories of pastoring?

… seeing the people “get it.” My greatest joy is seeing the people meet Jesus in the preaching of His Word. They come to church hungry, and when they get filled by the preaching of the Word, my heart is overjoyed.   -Pastor James La Belle, author, Pastor of Presbyterian Church of Cape Cod

 

How do you keep your heart and zeal for people and God, in spite of people’s failings and some turning against you?

By always thinking about the BIG picture, that it’s not about us, it’s about the people. Like my husband always says, “We are here to serve.” So when you have that mentality you realize you will be used, hurt by people and that is OK. After all we don’t love and serve people because they are nice back to us, but because we are capable of loving them with Jesus’s help, even when it’s hard. -Vika Aaltonen, Missionary Wife, The Door, CFM, Helsinki, Finland

 

What is the funniest or craziest situation you’ve experienced during your ministry that you are free to share?

When potty training my toddler, they ran down the church aisle naked during praise and worship. Yikes! – Donna, Pastors Wife

 

What do you see as the biggest threat to the church today?

I think we are on a teetering point. The biggest problem I think is internal; people who lose faith to take God at His Word. People who like to wear the Christian badge, but that’s it. It’s part of their Facebook profile, but not part of their personal profile. They are not converted. -Pastor Chip Ganiear, Victory Chapel CFM, Cape Cod, MA

 

What do you believe is the key to revival?

When the Church recognizes its distance from God, repents and takes steps toward God. Lordship means supreme authority. Lordship and forgiveness are two keys to revival. Many know Jesus as savior and healer, but not as Lord. Without Christ’s lordship, there is no revival.                       Pastor Greg Winslow, Missionary to Zihuatanejo, Mexico

Share some words of appreciation for your pastor and he will be listed on the Wall of Honor and entered to win a retreat at the Energize Lodge.

Pray for your pastor! Text the word PASTOR to 74574 for daily reminders and prompts to pray for your pastor.

© 2016 Rachael M Colby

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